tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43058343195328625712024-03-22T03:12:40.316+09:00Bruno's public diaryBruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.comBlogger256125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-86694820926165385502016-10-18T15:38:00.003+09:002016-10-18T15:45:13.661+09:00movingso, this was all really fun and that, a great learning experience but it's time to move on and start taking this writing thing a bit more seriously, just like a charmander, who must first evolve into a charmelion if he ever wishes to become a charizard<br />
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and I want to thank the 3 russian readers for being with me all this years during my journey, I couldn't have made it without you. really. thank you<br />
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Bruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-91367663064320429052016-09-25T12:09:00.001+09:002016-09-25T12:09:30.250+09:00but why<br />
ok, last post was six months ago, what happened since?<br />
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i left china and came to south america<br />
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but why?<br />
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thats what everyone asks me always and in the same way that the japanese say we have 3 faces, one we show to aquintances, other one for friends and family and the real one that we never show to anyone, so the answer to this that i give to people who are not so close to me is that i wanted to see my family becausei hadnt seen them for a long time, and even though its true,its meant to be an answer that easyto diggest, understand and relate to by anyone, so that became the template to the one we can add some detailsaccording to what we feel our listener needs to hear in that moment.<br />
the second answer for people who are a bit closer to me is that i was looking for something different thatn what i had had for a long time, for new experiences and that why i needed to start a walking trip, because its something i had neverdone before, andsome kind of a challenge,and also becausei wastoo comfortable in asia so neededto get out of my comfort zone, and while a little bit harder to swallow,its still easily understoodby most people who somehow knew me already.<br />
and the thirdanswerthat no one know but me, and now you, whoever you are, is more complicated to understand and to explain, we cn say that it definitely had nothing todo with family oradventures, workor oportunities nor any kind of superficial experiences or reasons, the true answer lies in the field of existentialism, and its hard to reply honestly tot he question of why moved to another continent without going into the subject of free willfirst and why we do anything we do. there are a million different variables afectingthe decision wetake, and i could probably fill upa few volumes of an encyclopedia explaining just a handful of those varibles, but theresno way people who ask you such a simple question likewhydid you come here could be ableto graspthe whole reality behind the reason we do things, so we take some super simple thing they can understand, and simplify mters sothat we can fulfillour secret desired to be understood and accepted by others. because we are afraid of being rejectedifwe tellthem there are millions of factors into play that affect our decisions.<br />
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so that is your exhaustive answer, it cn never be simple with you, there always hve tobe something else, a way to make things more difficult than they already are. and to prove how intelectually superior you feel to those who chose to live theirlives more simply without getting crushed everyday by the existential weight of being alivee and having to deal with this so called consciousness thing.<br />
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now i feel like you are projecting and thats how you seeyourselfso you putit on me, so as to explain how you feel<br />
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but why would i do that?<br />
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as some sort of therapy , or exercise, or as a way to tryto escpe the fact that you are aware that this life and this universe as we know it is either a computer simulation or somekind of illusion or that everything is real, whichmeans existence is meaningless, you are just an accident and youwill die and cease to existe and goodluck going to sleep at night with either of those<br />
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Bruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-33844176921009945572016-03-23T17:40:00.000+09:002016-03-23T17:41:08.077+09:00understanding negative thoughtsIf i check the facebook news feed To see what my friends are up to I often feel angry, disappointed or frustrated with what i see or read. <p>People share Some negative stuff or comment, What they ate, many things that are not real and have no possitive Influence or Relevance In our lives (deadool, batman, celebrities), vanity/ego Related stuff, Or something that they like and they want you to like as well so that they can Get Reassurance from others.<p>This Is just an example but Negative emotions can arise every day, at anytime and for many reasons, How can we take Advantage of This and use this negative emotions To improve ourselves and strengthen our spiritual practice:<p>1) Understanding that it's Perfectly normal that this negative emotions Arise. Good thoughts and bad thoughts Come and go all the time Inside our minds. That is the nature of human mind and there is no Reason to feel guilty Or punish ourselves for having negative thoughts. So feel free to feel Sad, angry, stressed or frustrated. Otherwise you will end up feeling stressed about being stressed, and then feeling stressed about being stressed about being stressed, and so on. It's better to feel stressed just once, understanding that this too will pass and embracing the freedom that Comes with that understanding.<p>2) Understanding The suffering we cause to ourselves and to others When we try to control stuff. I cannot control my thoughts, Facebook or my friends But i can control my attitude towards them.<p>3) Understanding the real reason why they post those stuff and i post this stuff is because of causes and effects, We are all conditioned By many different Variables and none of us is in Full control of our actions or our thoughts. <p>4) Understanding we are all in different Stages in our lives, Some people are looking to be entertained or numbing their minds with Art or technology, Some are seeking Sensual pleasures, Some are seeking physical experiences, others look to aquire Material wealth while Others seek Intelectual materialism, and some are looking for peace, happiness and contentment within their own minds. It's okay that we are all in different paths and i shouldn't expect others To be on the same path as me, If our paths cross along the way that's great if they don't that's also great.<p>5) Understanding that suffering comes from expecting From life something it cannot give us. If i expect to be Inspired by facebook i'm gonna get disappointed, if expected to have Only happy and peaceful thoughts I'm gonna get disappointed when negative thoughts come and that will lead to suffering.<p>6) Understanding that it's okay for me to get frustrated or annoyed, I'm not perfect and i don't need to be, as long as i try To understand the thought processes that go behind Suffering and freedom That's already a small step towards the right direction. We will get there eventually, When we stop worrying about getting there. when we set peace, happiness and understanding as a long term goal instead of a Short term achievement every small step counts. And even if we don't get there What matters is that we gave it our very best.<p><br>--<br>发自我的网易邮箱手机智能版Bruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-12608987617526220322016-03-17T15:06:00.001+09:002016-03-17T15:06:47.826+09:00labelsThe more labels we try to put on ourselves And on others The more obstacles we are placing On our way to freedom, peace and understanding. <p>For example even though i've been teaching for several years i don't consider myself a teacher, i'm just a person who works as a teacher, But i had many other jobs before teaching, and will have many different ones in the future. if i say i'm a teacher that means i can only work as a teacher And i would be closing the doors to many other things i would like or would need to do in the future.<p>Even though i don't usually eat meat And try to avoid dairy products i don't consider myself a vegan or a vegetarian, Because there are some situations where you just can't choose Or you don't have any money And you eat whatever people give you, In some other sItuation is better to eat the meat than to seeing it go to waste, And if i see the chickens running free and happily i wouldn't think twice about eating their eggs. And in most cases it would be Much more beneficial for The animals and the environment if i just eat whatever has been already Discarded by society (dumpster diving) Than having all these specially Made vegan Products produced and transported just for me to eat them. But if i were a vegan or a vegetarian I would have to respect my ethical code even though my instincts and common sense tell me otherwise And i would be closing the doors To the fact that ethics are not as black and white as vegans see them.<p>Even though i don't believe in god Or the paranormal i can not Call myself an atheist Because that would mean closing the door To a lot of amazing stuff. For example about 80% of buddhist teachings Are practical things that i can apply in my daily life To be happier, improve my life and the lives of others. The other 20% are the outdated stuff, How does karma work? MAGIC! how does reincarnation works? MAGIC! So there's no way i could close the door to that 80% of Amazing stuff I really need just because earlier in life I had decided to label myself as an atheist. <p>And even christianity Has a lot of amazing stuff if you really Get into IT, Like art, poetry, philosophy But IT all gets obfuscated By the dark side of Christianity, The bigotry, the racism, the pedophilia, the corruption, etc. During my trips I have been hosted and helped by so many christians, Specially in australia, in korea and in the philippines, But if i said i am an atheist that would automatically put me against them And i would be closing the door to A lot of great experiences from the ones i could really benefit from. <p>By the same token there are no criminals in prison, There are just people who commited crimes. There are no murders or thieves there are people who have murdered and people who have stolen. <br>There are people who made mistakes, There are people who were desperate, People who did what they could under the circumstances And people who felt prey Of a corrupt system Based on scarcity, Competition and inequality, But if we choose to label them as criminals We're closing the doors to forgiveness and understanding.<p>There are no crazy people, there are people who have mental Problems, And if we decide to label them as schizophrenic, paranoid or bipolar We are closing the doors To the healing process That can arise from focusing on the sane part of that person Instead of the sick one. <p>By not labeling ourselves and others We are allowing a deeper thought process to take place, In the one we can sincerely understand and accept each other, Understand ourselves and accepting that responsibility That comes along with understanding. <p>The responsibility of dealing more kindly with one another.<p><br>--<br>发自我的网易邮箱手机智能版Bruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-3323821289638408132016-03-15T21:29:00.000+09:002016-03-15T21:30:09.267+09:00best friendsI stopped fighting my inner demons, we're on the same side now...<p>The used tell me there is something wrong with me, now they say i'm Good enough .<p>They used to say i shouldn't do/say this, now they say "ok, let's see what happens".<p>They used to be very noisy when i was trying to sleep or meditate, Now they keep quiet and help me concentrate on the task at hand<p>They used to say i can't do it, now they say you HAVE to do it.<p>They used To tell me to worry about something that has happened before or will maybe happen in the future, Now they remind me to be here right now.<p>They used to tell me i should be doing or thinking something, Now they're happy to just be here with me.<p>The used to say it's not good to be alone, now they say they are my best friends And I'll never be alone again.<p><p>-Bruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-25509693577848155942016-03-13T19:07:00.000+09:002016-03-13T19:08:06.101+09:00about conditioning and causalitiesWhen someone abuses us or are mean to us it's not because they are bad people or we did something wrong, it's because of the conditions and the circunstances around them that lead them to behave that way.<p>We are all conditioned by our environment, by our thoughts, by our upbringing, by our level of awareness, by our education, by our experiences, by the way in that we see the world, by the way we see ourselves and by some other variables.<p>If we understand this we can see it's not actually their fault but there are always many factors in play. <p>If we are still stuck with the fault finding mind, we could rearrange the facts to fit our personal views, for example we could use their upbringing as an excuse to blame their parents, friends or teachers, we could blame the government by saying they shouldn't allow people to behave that way, we could blame their environment or society as a whole and say they acted that way because of social conditioning and that way we could blame tv, advertisements, the economy, the media, the politicians or anything we don't like for all the problems in our life and in the world.<p>But Once we start to understand how conditioning really works we can see past this fault finding mentality and we can understand why people are and act in certain ways that create suffering and inconveniences to people around them.<p>And it's much easier to understand and forgive them if they offended us in some way and understand and forgive ourselves as well for some mistakes we may have made in the past.<p>if we want to take it a step further we could use also try to understand the idea of the non-self, that there is nothing inside us besides those things that are a product of causes and conditions.<p>And going even further we could detach from the self and the fault finding mind, train ourselves and reflect on this in a way that through understanding we can apply this ideas to create a powerful positive effect that will improve our lives and the lives of those around us.<p>Thank you for reading.<p><p>--<br>发自我的网易邮箱手机智能版Bruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-57146846707972726742016-03-12T12:16:00.001+09:002016-03-12T12:16:09.072+09:00how to have a succesful relationshipIf you have ever been in a relationship you know the drill, everything's great at the beginning for a while then one of you stops trying and everything crumbles in a way that you don't even realize what's happening until it's too late.<p>Then you feel terrible, some time goes by, you think about what you did wrong and tell yourself you wont be making the same mistakes again in your next relationship.<p>Next relationship comes and sure thing you end up making the same mistake and so on.<p>To get out of this loop we need to do 3 things, the first one is to stop being control freaks.<p>We try to control our relationship, control our partner and control ourselves. And that just leads us to suffering and dissapointment.<p>Once you stop tring to control everything you can move on to the next step.<p>Which is learning to love yourself as you are, appreciate all the good things you do and say every day. And then love your partner in the same way. <p>And The third one is to stop expecting so much from ourselves, our partner and our relationship, lower your expectations or better yet have no epectations at all and you'll never be dissapointed.<p>We expect our partners to be perfect, get dissapointed when we find out they are not, and then we want to break up<p>We expect our relationships to be always harmonious, fun and successful, and then get dissapointed to find no relationship is perfect<p>But It doesnt mater if you succeded or not in your relationship in the long run, it matters that you succeded in trying and that you gave it your very best.<p>It's not always going to work out the way you want it to, people change, circunstances change. <br>But you had a great time, loved and learned a lot from each other, and that's much more important than any mistake you or they may have made.<p>Thank you for reading.<p><p><p><br>--<br>发自我的网易邮箱手机智能版Bruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-16263693669966452132016-03-10T22:09:00.001+09:002016-03-10T22:09:46.593+09:00Doing nothingPeople often ask you what are you doing. Or they want you to do something. I don't mean like work but yeah, they also always want you to work, a lot. They want you to be like a hamster Running in it's his wheel.<p>There is an art about doing Nothing and not feeling guilty about it, Because people usually want to make you feel guilty if you do nothing. <p>To the point where we are not human beings anymore, We're human doers, Human goers, human thinkers.<br> We're always doing something, going somewhere, thinking about something. <p>Why not just being for change? And if people ask you what are you doing You can say you're just watching the trees grow, And you can't move because if you move you may miss it.<p>We feel like we don't own our life anymore, Other people own it, We do, think and say things just because other people want us to. Or because we think they do.<p>But how many people you know that just want you to be happy? don't want you to be someone, Have something, do something.<br> I do. So that's at least one person.<p>That's why My dream is to be a pilgrim, a wanderer, a vagrant, and just walk, Not trying to be Someone or something, Getting rid of the self, getting rid of the me, the I and the mine. And just being.<p>You know, just walking and enjoying freedom, Not having to worry about where will you sleep tonight, or What will you eat, What other people think of you Or what you think of yourself.<p>Being the sole owner of my life and thoughts. <br>I have worked, thought and done enough in my life, so now It's time for peace.<p>Walking all around south america With my dog, You know left looks nice so we can go left, If right looks better we go right, Or we could just stay here, they're all good options.<p>Just walking and enjoying the view, Not having to get anywhere or accomplish anything anymore.<p>And if people ask us where are we going we can say we're just walking.<p>Mc Fly says latin america is very dangerous, But i think it's ok, we have to die Sometime anyway, we better die happy, doing something we like.<p>Whatever the consequences are we have to do what we have to do, So that we have no regrets in our death bed, Because In the end it doesn't really matter if we live or die what's important is that we are proud of how we lived.<p><p>--<br>发自我的网易邮箱手机智能版Bruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-59029201078005740012016-03-09T23:50:00.001+09:002016-03-09T23:50:43.258+09:00hi, i also wrote thisWhether you like it or not The minute you set food in china you automatically Become an A list celebrity.<br>Everyone will be staring always Because that's Just how it is.<p>That means every time You're in public You have to smile to everyone, They want to shake your hand, they want to take pictures with you, and asking the same questions over and over again<p>It's a surreal experience really, Could be fun for a few weeks But its definITely Not fun to live like that, You see them pointing at you, you hear them whispering, and it's super creepy when they follow you home and stalk you<p>They always look at you very deep in the eyes, its an extremely personal interaction<p> And that led me to hide my eyes under a cap Or sunglasses For a very long time because i was afraid of that extreme intimacy You have to offer to everyone Every day and everywhere you go.<p>And i have asked myself what would be the most compassionate way to behave towards myself and towards them In this kind of situations<p>It is an extremely shallow interaction, In the one they are only interested in you because of your image And that leads me to ask myself If i'm just a monkey Or clown that is here to amuse people so they can take pictures with me<br>Or do i have anything else to offer the world besides my image?<p>They don't speak any english because of course they don't, So there's no chance of any meaningful interaction And they are not aware that the same questions they want to ask me i have answered them at least a few dozen times this week<p>What i learned from all of this Is that The way i react to this kind of Situations has a very high effect on my spiritual practice<p>To be completely honest people in china are just super annoying and gross And they go out the way to make you feel uncomfortable, They smoke in the elevator, stare at you all the time, They spit and relieve themselves everywhere, They are super loud, and all of that actually helps me To be a better person.<p>I am not the one disturbed by the noise, i am the one disturbing the noise. I am not the one being disturbed by the smoke, i am the one disturbing the smoke<p>That's just the way china is, it has always been like that and it will always be like that, and There is nothing i can do about it, but it's the way i react to it that makes the whole difference<p>I could either get annoyed by those things and be unhappy Or i could understand that that's just the way life is, And i could go with the flow, have a laugh and have a good time with them, I know they're all nice people deep inside, Sure they're not perfect, they have their quirks, but there are good enough<p>It's when we try to control things that We create suffering, We try to control ourselves, to control others, To control china, To control the situation<p>China is not perfect, no place is. <br>Our planet is not perfect, People are not perfect, I am not perfect, and life is not perfect, There will always be problems and inconveniences everywhere we look<p>It's my choice to Focus on the good or on the bad things i see Every day. Yes chinese people still smoke in the hospitals and that annoys me, But they also do a million nice things for me<p>Some of them wake up at four in the morning to start making the fillings for the Mushroom steamed buns i will eat for breakfast, An old lady works the whole night cleaning the park where i will go for a run, Another old man stands the whole day in a crowded polluted and noisy street selling bananas that i will buy, And the list goes on and on. And i am extremely grateful to all of them<p>We suffer when we expect from life something it cannot give us. <p>Dogs bark, Babies cry, and chinese are terribly Loud, dirty and obnoxious, but kind deep inside and That is the intrinsic nature of things<p>Dogs bark, babies cry and bruce posts some cheap phylosophical reflexions Disguised in what it could have appeard to be just another rant about china, But in the end it wasn't, In the end it was nice<p><br>Thank you for readingBruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-85480531273461301312016-03-08T15:53:00.000+09:002016-03-08T15:54:15.394+09:00Hi, I wrote thisWhen i was In south america i thought that If i move to europe everything would be better.<p>After spending a few years in europe I was still feeling empty inside so I thought well, maybe If i move to asia everything will be better there.<p>Few years in asia went by and nothing had really changed So i thought ok, once i go to australia THEN i could be in peace and happy.<p>After a year in australia i realized I wasn't happy there either, so i needed to go back to asia where there were still a few countries i hadn't been to And could start a new and exciting Life somewhere.<p>After a few more years in asia I was somehow still not happy, So decided i have to move to new zealand, THERE I will find financial and emotional stability.<p>And I did! I had finally found what i'd been looking for, Oh wait... no i didn't, new zealand sucked ass for me, I lost all the money i had and came back to asia because it's always easier to find a job here. <p>It's been three years since NZ, And even though this story is an oversimplification and a million adventures went on in between, I'm guessing you understand What i'm trying to say<p>Now i live in a tiny one bedroom apartment In a backwards chinese city, I sleep on the floor next my dog and use my jumper as a pillow. I have no job, not much money, no career nor any material stuff.<p>What i do have though, is a message to transmit, And the means to convey it in a way everyone can understand it. We don't need big words To express big emotions.<p>I know what you're thinking right now, Peace and happiness come from within And they don't depend on the place where you are, the things you have or the experiences you had. <p>And you would be right to think that way of course. But Most people reading this already know, that more means less, we can only be happy once we stop craving Things and experiences and all that hippie stuff. But There is much more to it all.<p>Throughout the years i Had read many books On how to be happy and peaceful and had tried Different meditation styles or retreats, like tibetan or theravada buddhism, vipassana, And they all worked well for a while and gave me a temporary boost that could last for a few days or a few weeks. And after that i started feeling miserable again, Because i was trying to force all this knowledge, understanding and techniques When i just Wasn't ready for it yet.<p>I was trying to force myself to be peaceful and happy In the same way that people on facebook try to impose Their views and interests on others.<p>Instead of allowing myself to just be, I kept getting stressed and upset at myself for not being good enough. For not being kind enough. for not being peaceful enough. For not being happy enough. And guess what, that just created more suffering.<p>how can i be happy if i think there is something wrong with me? If i think i'm too fat or too slim, Or i'm not smart enough, Or not experienced enough or Haven't traveled enough, or i think i'm not peaceful enough, Or i feel lonely, Or i want to Make myself feel bad for some mistakes i made in the past. <p>And i would end up blaming myself for all the problems in this world as well. The animals are still suffering because maybe i'm not vegan enough, The environment suffers because i'm not freegan enough And i waste too many resources, The people suffer because i don't Go to enough protests to stop the governments from making people suffer and people around me suffer because i'm not kind enough to them. <p>And guess what, taking all the blame didn't help either. All these years i WAS good enough and i WAS doing my best. I just couldn't see it because of a lack of understanding. Lack of wisdom to be more accurate.<p>When we want to feel bad We will find a way, and when we want to feel like we are the victims Of an unfair world or system We will find a way to Accommodate the facts To fit our own conjectures and views.<p><p>How can i be happy if i don't love and accept myself. If i don't appreciate all the good things i do, and keep on Focusing on the bad ones. <p>Now, i am not claiming to be enlightened or having all the answers, I just want to share my experiences in hope that someone will find them useful.<p>I don't need any prize or praise, That's why i like this blog That we can set it up to no advertisements So as not to inconvenience the readers.<p>And if i were to die tomorrow you will know exactly what i was thinking and feeling.<p>At the same time i got to a point in my life Where i stopped thinking 'maybe i shouldn't say that', Instead i'd think 'okay let's see what happens' <p>And is this commitment to honesty and truth the one that allows me to be writing this right now. <br>It allows me to be honest with myself, to understand what i really think and feel and why, and being able to share it with the world. <p>I am a simple person that maybe in his arrogance Truly believes he has found a meaning to it all. <p>It has found Its purpose in life, To serve, to be happy and to help others Find happiness By sharing with them The means, and thought processes i Found useful myself.<p>I am, after all, a scientist at heart, don't believe in any new age of magic kind of stuff. <br>What i do believe in is truth, understanding And the idea that only you are in charge of your thoughts emotions and feelings. <br>And whatever it is you think it's preventing you from being happy It could be seen with a different light if you so choose to.<p>It is said that overthinking is the Major cause of unhappiness and depression, In this case the opposite can be said as well.<br>Over thinking can be the way to see things more deeply And understanding you have everything you need to be happy. And every reason for it as well.<p><p>A good starting point Could be to be kind towards your body.<br> I used to be the person Who would sit Down for two hours In the same position trying to Meditate, Until my back And my legs would hurt. <br>Without knowing it, I was being aggressive to my body. Trying to find peace through violence. <p>That's Just one of the many mistakes i made And intend to share with you all So that maybe Together, we can come one step closer to being (and feeling) better.<p><br>Thank you for reading.<p>BruceBruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-88253196704040844252016-02-11T20:42:00.001+09:002016-02-11T20:42:48.518+09:00Excuses<div style="line-height:1.7;color:#000000;font-size:14px;font-family:Arial"><div style="line-height:1.7;color:#000000;font-size:14px;font-family:Arial"><div><br>List of excuse people use:<br><br><br>For smoking and giving second hand smoke to non-smokers:<br><br>- All my friends smoke<br>- I've been smoking since I was xxx years<br>- It's my only pleasure in life / It's my only vice<br>- I may stop in the future but right now I need it<br>- It helps me relax<br>- Chinese government needs my tax money<br>- It's just a bad habit<br>- It's my life, I do what I want<br><br><br><br>To stay in a destructive or abusive relationship:<br><br>- I am hoping he will change in the future<br>- He's just having a bad day<br>- We've been through so much together<br>- I still love him<br>- He's good to the children<br>- I don't want to be alone<br><br><br><br>To not going traveling or doing what you really want to do:<br><br>- I'm too young / too old<br>- I don't have enough money<br>- I wont be able to find a job in other country<br>- I can't speak their language<br>- It's too cold / hot there<br>- I will miss my family / my family will miss me<br>- People will think I am not a productive member of society<br><br><br>To eat or cause some harm to the animals:<br><br>- They taste so good<br>- I need protein<br>- They are just animals<br>- I have been eating meat all my life<br>- We are omnivores, look at our teeth<br>- It's the way society works<br><br><br>To do terrible things, such as politicians, police, soldiers, business people or corporations causing harm or inconvenience to people or the environment.<br><br>- That's the way the world works<br>- That's human nature<br>- I like the taste of fresh blood<br>- I'm just doing what I'm told<br>- That's how our economy works<br><br><br><br><br></div></div></div><br><br><span title="neteasefooter"><p> </p></span>Bruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-12464950867289784122016-02-09T00:43:00.001+09:002016-02-09T00:43:34.713+09:00How to leave for good<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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Ok, so you decided you had enough of this place and need to
move on with your life, life is about learning and you have already learned all
you needed to learn from this place, there’s nothing else for you here and it’s
time to leave for good.</div>
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You may come back or you may not, good thing about burning
your bridges is that it allows space for new things, opportunities and
experiences to come into your life, a blank page waiting to be written because
the old ones ate each other up somehow. But that’s not for everyone, some need
the security of knowing they can always come back here in the future if they
need to.</div>
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In my case though, I prefer to think the countries where I
used to live have been taken over by the Russians, my old workplace has been
shut down due to upper management incompetence and my ex girlfriend died in a
tornado.</div>
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If someone knows about me and about my life style, 2 questions I get asked often are “How
to do it?” and “what’s the hardest part?” I am hoping this post will be an
answer to both of them, how to do it?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Just keep reading, the hardest part is leaving of course, after that
everything always works itself out.</div>
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This attempt of an instructional is actually a guide I’d
like to use as a way to motivate myself to do what I need to do. It could maybe
inspire others, or not, but I am writing it so I can read it in the future,
when I need to leave a country again and don’t know where to start. Or have
doubts of weather this is the right thing to do or I am making a mistake I will
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I will be listing a thing to do every day that will take you
closer to your goal, but you could also replace days by hours if you want to or
have to leave in a rush.</div>
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First week (or first 7 hours):</div>
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Day 1: Book a one way ticket, any ticket, to anywhere,
doesn’t matter if it’s for next week or for next month, if it’s a 10 dollars
ryan air/air asia ticket or a 2 dollars subway ticket from your place to the
airport, what counts is to have a physical proof that your dream is slowly
coming true, and the more of them you have the harder it will be to chicken
out.</div>
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Day 2: Tell everyone you are leaving and you have a ticket
already. This will give you pressure and motivation to do what you need to do.
Don’t make a big deal out of it though, if you do, everyone will make an even
bigger deal out of it and give you lots of drama, just drop it somewhere in the
middle of a random conversation or as a facebook post, something casual like
“Anyone In Antarctica next month?”</div>
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Day 3: Make a list of all the places you have always dreamed
of going to, and why. Be honest to yourself, no one else will know and you can
burn the list tomorrow.</div>
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Exmples: Brazil - football - big butts - beaches </div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Colombia
- learn Spanish - shakira - cocaine</div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>New
Zealand – sheep – the lord of the rings - sheep</div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Japan – ninjas – sushi - tentacles </div>
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Day 4: Choose one place and google all the stuff you are
interested in, let’s say I chose Odesa in Ukraine, I could start by googling
something like: </div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“jobs in
odesa”</div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Ukraine
visas for xxx citizens”</div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>“Apartments for rent in odesa” </div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Best
pizza in Odessa”</div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“free
Russian lessons in odesa”</div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“best
creampie in odesa”</div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“pokemon
cosplay group odesa”</div>
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<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“two
girls one cup official fan club odesa weekly meetings”</div>
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Or anything else you may be interested in, and remember, new
experiences are always welcome.</div>
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Day 5: Sign up for some website that will make your life
easier in the country, like couchsurfing, meetup.</div>
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Day 6: Make a plan B in case you don’t find what you were
looking for in Odesa; example:</div>
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-train station in Russian is said: xxx</div>
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-the train station is here: xxx</div>
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-train/bus from odesa to Bucharest costs xxx money, it
leaves at xxx every day.</div>
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-address of homeless shelter in Bucharest: xxx</div>
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Day 7: ???</div>
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Now that we made it to the end of the first week of
planning, we’ll head straight to the second one in the one we will<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>be taking care of stuff that need to be taken
care of before we leave. </div>
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Days 8, 9, 10: Getting rid of stuff you won’t be needing any
more, anything you can’t take with you must go, give them away, sell them,
exchange them for sexual favors, use alchemy to turn them into gold or just
plain dump them in the trash.</div>
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Day 11, 12: Packing</div>
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Day 13: Hide your stash somewhere only you can find it in
the future. A good stash could be for example a clean change of clothes and
some money, just in case there’s some emergency and you need to go back to that
city you’ll always have something to start with from zero. And don’t forget to
add some stuff to confuse archeologists from the future, something like random
symbols with a strange drawing, a random key and coordinates for some random
point in the middle of the ocean.</div>
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<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;">Day 14: Saying sayounara </span></div>
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Bruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-39682488146924763972016-02-08T01:56:00.000+09:002016-02-10T17:54:47.196+09:00Just in case I die<div style="color: black; font-family: "arial"; font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.7;">
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I am not planning to die anytime soon, but truth is i can die at any time and for many reason, that's part of human life, so let's say I die today and you were the last person to see me before I died.<br />
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It may be that you are my couchsurfing guest or host and found this entry in this blog through a link on my profile, checking it in confusion not knowing what to do after seeing me getting 7 warning shots from behind because police thought I was black or latino or muslim.<br />
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So you may wonder what to do now, with my stuff, with my body, with my dog.<br />
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Money never came my way, so I don't really have any material stuff, or savings or properties or anything in my name, I just have what I'm wearing and what's in my bag, and you may do whatever with them, it wont make any difference after I'm gone.<br />
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I don't really have any friends or girlfriend, I haven't seen my family in many years and most people don't really like me all that much, some they tolerate me, some know who I am, I have failed to communicate or to keep in touch with the thousands of people I met along my journeys, and my father may as well be the only person in this world that replies my messages and tries to keep in touch with me somehow, so he could be the only person you need to inform of my passing, so that he can get some kind of closure. He changes email, phone number and address every second week, so I can only contact him through wechat and here's his ID: gustland<br />
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I request all my usable organs to be donated to someone who needs them, or to science in case no one needs them, and the rest to be buried or given back to the earth for plants and animals to feed on them as I have fed on plants and animals through out my life.<br />
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My dog is the most important thing in my life, so you have to look after her, otherwise I will come back as a ghost to haunt you and make sure you always click an ad instead of the download button.<br />
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Here is what you need to know about her:<br />
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Name: Kim Bongu, but you can call just call her Bongu<br />
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Age: About 19 months old at the time of writing<br />
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Weight: 14.5 kg<br />
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Breed: Tugou, which in english would be somthing like "chinese farmer's dog"<br />
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Diet: 75% of her diet has to be protein, any meat, baked, grilled or boiled tofu, boiled carrots, broccoli, cauliflower, eggs. She can eat any dog food dry or wet. And the other 25% is carbs and fats, she can eat white rice, any bread, loves sweet potato, papaya, pumpkin, bananas, dragon fruit, cheese, yogurt.<br />
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Others: I did a lot of research and worked very hard to train her to the best behavior a dog can possibly have, now it's up to you to maintain them and not letting her develop any bad habits.<br />
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- She will never relieve herself inside your house or anyone's house for that matter, or a restaurant or hotel or anywhere indoors. Hang a little bell from the doorknob and she will ring it with her nose or paw when she really needs to go out, otherwise she will wait until you take her out, assuming you will take her out at least twice a day in the morning and evening.<br />
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- When you take her out to use the toilet she will go by herself far from you and return after 5 or 10 minutes when she finishes her business and stay next to you.<br />
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- Make sure she has water and food available at all times.<br />
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- We never use a leash, she will never go to the street, near cars and will always stay within your sight, if walking in a super crowded street she will walk next to you or right behind you so she can see you, never in front, still no need for a leash, but if you need to go somewhere where they don't allow dogs you can use a leash to tie her up to some tree or somewhere and she will stay there looking forward to your return.<br />
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- If in an elevator or waiting in line to pay for something she will stay between your legs, so she wont bother others or get in the way.<br />
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- If you talk to someone on the street or buying something she will take it as a sign of friendliness meaning that person is friendly and she can say hello or approach them confidently.<br />
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- She knows her place and knows what she is allowed and isn't allowed to do. She is not allowed to bark, bite, jump or bother any person. She is allowed to say hello to people, dogs say hello by approaching and sniffing someone they like. If she doesn't like a person or dog she would just ignore them.<br />
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- She needs to be called only once and she will come. Always. Once is enough.<br />
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- She is kind, friendly, sociable and good natured, she would never bother, hurt or cause some inconvenience to any person or other animals.<br />
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- She knows she has to sit and wait patiently while you prepare her food, and she has to sit in front of the door before we leave and when we come back home to wait patiently until you open the door for her.<br />
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- If you say "right" she will walk on your right, "left" means she has to walk on your left, that's useful in crowded streets, while running together or riding a bike, or if you think she's on the way.<br />
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- If you want to use a leash that is also ok and she will be happy to walk next to you and wont pull on it because she knows she is not in charge, she is below you in the hierarchy ladder, dogs are pack animals and need a leader to follow and look up to. They need guidance and discipline otherwise something bad could happen.<br />
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- You can't hit her, never. Nor any kind of punishment like withdrawing her food or water or locking her in a small room by herself. Dog's make mistakes and have off days same as humans, but if you say NO! just once she knows she did wrong and will correct her behavior, nothing else is needed. She learns new things through positive reinforcement, not through fear or punishment.<br />
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- "Come" is the most important command because it could save her life and she knows it, you only need to say it once and she will come blindly no matter what's happening around.<br />
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- If you get into a car, "come" means she has to come into the car with you, when we drive the scooter "come" means she has so sit between your legs. <br />
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- "Jump" while on the scooter means she has to get off and will obey it even if you haven't yet stopped, so careful with that.<br />
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- She can go through the hula hoop if you say "jump" and can jump over fences and some obstacles not higher than 1 meter.<br />
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- We use a clicker and she knows the sound of it means she did something good, also you can click it if you want her to come or get her attention.<br />
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- "Good girl" means she did well. <br />
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- If she rubs herself againn something means there is a dead animal buried there<br />
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- She can run next to your bicycle, skateboard or scooter if you think she needs exercise and can also run next to you if you go for a run.<br />
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- She can run a marathon (42km) without breaking a sweat and walk or hike 10 or 12 hours a day next to you if she has to because she's good like that.<br />
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- Knows other basic commands like "sit, go, lay down, run, paw, the other paw, spin around, wait"<br />
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- She has never and will never bite any person or animal, if she feels threatened she will hide in between your legs and if it's a sudden unexpected threat, like a bomb, she may run away scared but will come back to you soon.<br />
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- She is not neutered<br />
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- Se is microchiped and her passport and vaccinations certificates are inside a small blue bag somewhere in my house. <br />
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So yes, I died, that's life. People die, that's what they do.<br />
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There's no need for suffering, suffering comes from expecting something that life can't give you. <br />
Were you expecting me to live forever? Life can't give you that, and the faster you understand that fact the easier it will be for everyone when the time comes.<br />
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I had spent a great deal of time, a while back ago to understand the fact that I was going to die sooner or later and coming to terms with it, so will my dog, and everyone I know, everyone I've ever met and there's nothing I can do about it, the wiser thing to do is to accept it and move on, after all I am still in charge of my thoughts, my emotions and my level of awareness and understanding can be as high or as low as i choose them to be.<br />
If there's something that is causing me suffering I can choose to deal with it and no one is in charge of my state of mind but myself.<br />
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And what's next? Nothing, there's no afterlife or reincarnation, there's just peace and nothingness, and that's alright, a bit scary but still alright. <br />
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And what is the meaning of my dead? To give meaning to yours, to remind you life is fragile, you have only one and you have to live it to the fullest and do everything you always wanted to, before it's too late.<br />
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And what to do if you feel sad because I died? Understand that the reason you feel bad is no other than social conditioning, you are a product of your environment, and if you had been brought up in a society that celebrates dead or at least accepts it and understands it, you would be feeling otherwise right now. <br />
Understand that you and only you are responsible of your emotions and you can choose, or learn to be happy and stay positive under any circumstance. You can choose to understand life and death. So yeah, some people will say you are a cold hearted insensitive bastard, and it's ok to put on a show in front of them so you wont get ostracized and looked down on, what's important is that in your mind you know the truth, and that you are in peace with it. However hard it may be, it's what needs to be done.<br />
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And you will miss me sometimes? Well, you can be at ease knowing I had a happy life, I followed my dreams and did what I wanted to, I had the chance of loving and being loved in return, I experienced true unconditional love, I did what I thought it was the right thing to do and lived a meaningful life. I did my best to challenge the norm, break the stereotypes, to inspire and bring joy to many, had some really amazing life experiences and died peacefully and happily, what else could one ask for? <br />
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And what's the meaning of life? To understand, to be happy, to be in peace, to share peace and love with others. To feel that unity, that sense of belonging and connectedness, to the universe, to nature and to every living thing. To feel alive, understanding comes attached to that feeling, and detachment comes attached to understanding. To love and accept yourself, to love others unconditionally, right now for who they are, with no strings attached, accepting them and letting them go, letting them be free and letting them die.<br />
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And then letting go of yourself and die as well. <br />
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With a peaceful mind.<br />
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And a smile.<br />
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I love you.<br />
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Please look after my dog.<br />
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Bruno<br />
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<br />Bruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-56247438091238620572016-01-28T22:31:00.001+09:002016-01-28T22:57:35.766+09:00In the future I can see myself...<br />
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<br />
...building a shelter for the night and ending up staying there a few weeks because i feel sorry to abandon it after it was so hard to build<br />
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<br />
...deciding i am not good enough, don't want to write anymore and giving my laptop away<br />
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...deciding i need to start writing again and getting a new laptop<br />
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...traveling during summer with nothing but tooth brush, tooth floss, passport and a spare pair of underwear, washing them every day in public toilets or streams and letting them to dry in the sun for a while before keeping walking <br />
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<br />
...getting arrested for:<br />
refusing to pay a bribe<br />
missing the immigration office or checkpoint and not getting a stamp they wanted me to get<br />
being in the wrong place at the wrong time<br />
disrespecting an officer of the law<br />
having a protein or creatine powder confused by cocaine<br />
saying something i shouldn't about china or north korea on the internet<br />
being a foreigner<br />
not registering my visa within few days of my arrival, as required by china, russia, and some countries ending in "stan". they can't accept someone can be just traveling.<br />
faking documents<br />
disrespecting their government, their religions<br />
working on a tourist visa<br />
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<br />
...going to live in the amazonian rain forest, or what's left of it and becoming a hunter/gatherer <br />
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<br />
...going back to the city to find an internet cafe to look up how to be a hunter/gatherer<br />
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...using my ninja skills to climb a wall and sneak into a supermarket at night because i was too hungry and couldn't find anything to eat in the forest<br />
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...losing my mind after not talking to anyone for a few months<br />
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...losing my mind after coming back to the city and talking to too many people<br />
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...becoming an eco-terrorist<br />
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...being wrongfully accused of being an Eco-terrorist by someone reading this post<br />
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...going to some villages near the china-north korean border and helping the people who escape from north korea to make it to the south korean mission in bangkok by hiking through the mountains in laos or vietnam<br />
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<br />
...getting kidnapped and sent to north korea<br />
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<br />
...being tortured in a north korean labor camp<br />
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<br />
...escaping from north korea<br />
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...learning to appreciate life, freedom, love and putting my past as a tortured slave behind<br />
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<br />
...feeling guilty about the way I abandoned all the other north korean prisoners and putting together a suicide squad whose only mission is to rescue the other prisoners<br />
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<br />
...devising 8 different plans to escape with all the prisoners:<br />
digging a tunnel<br />
by hot air balloon<br />
wearing masks and fake IDs to pass as chinese citizens<br />
building a boat and sailing around north korea until we make it to south korea, <br />
submarine mexican cartel's style<br />
a device that would allow us to breath underwater and swimming to south korea<br />
trekking through the mountains<br />
1) find a foreigner 2) explain him the situation 3) get him to give you his passport, he can get a new one at some embassy 4) put north korean person's picture on it 5) ??? 6) profit<br />
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<br />
...succeeding in escaping despite having all the odds against us<br />
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<br />
...feeling like I got help from someone...<br />
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...suddenly getting shot, bleeding out and dying happily because I stood for what was right and did my best to help those who needed me the most<br />
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<br />
...coming back from the future to help me past self to rescue some north korean prisoners<br />
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...shooting my past self and seeing him bleed to death so I can close the loop and avoid paradoxes<br />
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...taking his place and making sure everyone's safe<br />
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<br />
...using my technology from the future to rescue all the people in north korea from their oppressors<br />
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...regretting having killed my past self 25 years ago and going back in time to stop myself from doing it<br />
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<br />Bruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-87699773652788433322016-01-28T22:03:00.004+09:002016-02-11T10:27:41.635+09:0020 Things I wish someone had told me when I just arrived in china<br />
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1) When someone says "Hmmm..." that means they don't agree with you but they can't tell you because they need to avoid conflict at all cost<br />
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2) People will compliment you on weird stuff you didn't choose, accomplished or had anything to do with, such as your height, eye color, eyelashes length, etc<br />
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3) There is no such a thing as a social smoker, someone who smokes when he's with friends or at a party just for fun. Here you are either a chain smoker or you don't smoke at all, there's no middle point. Same goes with drinking, they wont allow you to have just a few drinks, you either get wasted or you don't drink at all. Your choice.<br />
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4) People will talk to you a lot, and very loudly, but they are friendly, that's how they are used to talk<br />
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5) If you cook something for someone and it has no chili they wont like it and they will say "Hmmm..."<br />
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6) There is no such a thing as house parties and is taboo to invite someone to your house. Not because they are afraid of you but because if they go to your house they wont be spending money and here spending money or buying many things is not seen as wasteful or arrogant, it's an attribute everyone considers positive, so if you meet someone you can't meet them at a park either, because it's free, must meet them at a restaurant, cafe, or place where you will be spending money<br />
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7) Can't share cups or bottles with someone<br />
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8) Can't say anything good or bad about the government or the bad things that happen in china, if you say something bad they will say "Hmmm..." and if you say something good it will inspire distrust<br />
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9) Can't give your clothes to others, even if it's new and very expensive and you just wore it once, it's taboo<br />
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10) "I will call the police" is not a valid threat, because everyone know police are useless and they wont help anyone who is in trouble, they can only give you more trouble<br />
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11) Everyone will stare at you, as if they were watching TV<br />
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12) Saying you're muslim is always an effective way to explain why you don't drink/smoke/eat meat.<br />
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13) There's no such a thing as friendship between boys and girls and many people say they want to be your friends but what they mean to say is that they want to practice their english or take you somewhere as the token white guy<br />
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14) The local's idea of a fun night out can be either: going to a restaurant and to a bar afterwards or going to a restaurant and to KTV after it, there's no third option<br />
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15) You must live outside the big cities, big cities are a mess<br />
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16) Police can stop you on the streets and ask you for your passport, and they can shout at you and push you if you can't speak chinese<br />
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17) Money and paying the bill is a very big deal, even if it's just 20 cents people must fight for it, and the winner gets to pay, throwing money at the waitress or cashier is an acceptable way to pay first.<br />
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18) The military can pull you over if you in a bus, a car or a train, they can question you, ask for papers and they all have shotguns and assault riffles.<br />
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19) Only requirements for working in a hotel in China: Not speaking any english<br />
Only requirements for working as an english teacher in China: Speaking a little bit of English.<br />
Only requirements for working for the government: Knowing someone who works there.<br />
Only requirements for working as a police man or in the army: Being a terrible person.<br />
Only requirements for working in a restaurant: Using chili and MSG in every dish.<br />
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20) It's very easy to find a job, and it's just as easy to not get paid for it.<br />
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<br />Bruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-78186536436768948142016-01-20T18:48:00.000+09:002016-01-20T18:49:06.144+09:00it all comes together<div style="line-height:1.7;color:#000000;font-size:14px;font-family:Arial"><div style="line-height:1.7;color:#000000;font-size:14px;font-family:Arial"><div><br>the continental drifts, the great dying and other mass extinctions, the climate changes, evolution, it all leads you to this very moment in life, you are here because million other beings were brave, tough and lucky to pass on their genes to you<br><br>we could say then that now is your time to shine, and there's nothing to stop you from doing it, there are no predators, no ice age coming anytime soon, we can fight off starvation and disseases, and there's no meterorite going to hit our planet in the near future<br><br>i concede most governments are doing heir best to give us a hard time, last year alone they spend 175 billions in war, so they can kill other humans that they don't like, they put checkpoints and people with guns here and there to make you scared, they make rules, laws and policies to take away your freedom in as many ways as they can, they pollute the air and the rivers, cut down the trees and kill the animals, they try to make you a slave of their system<br><br>they make you a slave through low wages and social control, they make sure you are not able to save or earn enough money to live a happy life, and in the case that you decide that money doesn't bring happiness, they use social pressure to make sure you stay in the path they want you to follow so they can control your life<br><br>but once you can bypass the governments its just you and the earth, there are still plenty of places unexplored out there, unexplored to you at least, and you can choose.<br><br>you can choose if you want to be alone or with others, you an choose what to eat and when, what to do and what not to do, what to think and how to live your life away from that pressure you once had.<br><br>That pressure to keep the government and people around you happy, because you knew if you didn't do what they wanted you to they wouldn't have let you be happy or in peace with yourself<br><br>truth is though, that while the 99% of people are fighting for you to stay in the system there's still that 1% like myself that are fighting to get you out of the system, with the hope that someday, if enough people start refusing to cooperate with a system based on slavery and income inequality, it will just collapse by itself or become obsolete<br><br><br><br>lies, lies, shameless lies, everything people say to you is pure lies, they lie because they are afraid you will do something they are not brave enough to do. They are afraid that you will prove them wrong. They are afraid of you not reinforcing their ideas and beliefs. they just want reassurance, so they want you to agree with them and do what they do.<br><br><br>but maybe so do I, either way i still need to share a valuable piece of knowledge, it doesn't mater what you do or don't do in your life, if you work or not, if you have a family or not, if you are rich or poor, it's all the same, true freedom comes from understanding and accepting your destiny, accepting death. <br><br>if you are happy or sad, sleep in the street or in a house, have many friends or none, it's all irrelevant, because once you accept that life is short, you will die and your consciousness will be lost forever, with all your memories and experiences, you will start caring less about what other think, do or say, because they are in a different wavelength.<br><br>what do you want to do today? want to go tell your neighbor that you love him/her? that is fine, want to quit your job and go living in the mountain eating insects you find under the rocks, that is fine, or drink a bottle of whiskey and jump of a building with a parachute blasting the opening theme of one punch man on your headphones, that is fine and is probably the best thing you could do today, or don't, both are good options as long as you understand and are in peace with the fact that you will die either way.<br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br></div></div></div><br><br><span title="neteasefooter"><p> </p></span>Bruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-17570525404798339222016-01-20T18:45:00.001+09:002016-01-20T18:45:37.703+09:00How to answer awkward questions and comments from Chinese people<div style="line-height:1.7;color:#000000;font-size:14px;font-family:Arial"><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:view> <w:zoom>0</w:zoom> <w:trackmoves /> <w:trackformatting /> <w:punctuationkerning /> <w:validateagainstschemas /> <w:saveifxmlinvalid>false</w:saveifxmlinvalid> <w:ignoremixedcontent>false</w:ignoremixedcontent> <w:alwaysshowplaceholdertext>false</w:alwaysshowplaceholdertext> <w:donotpromoteqf /> <w:lidthemeother>EN-US</w:lidthemeother> <w:lidthemeasian>X-NONE</w:lidthemeasian> <w:lidthemecomplexscript>X-NONE</w:lidthemecomplexscript> <w:compatibility> <w:breakwrappedtables /> <w:snaptogridincell /> <w:wraptextwithpunct /> <w:useasianbreakrules /> <w:dontgrowautofit /> <w:splitpgbreakandparamark /> <w:dontvertaligncellwithsp /> <w:dontbreakconstrainedforcedtables /> <w:dontvertalignintxbx /> <w:word11kerningpairs /> <w:cachedcolbalance /> </w:compatibility> <m:mathpr> <m:mathfont m:val="Cambria Math" /> <m:brkbin m:val="before" /> <m:brkbinsub m:val="--" /> <m:smallfrac m:val="off" /> <m:dispdef /> <m:lmargin m:val="0" /> <m:rmargin m:val="0" /> <m:defjc m:val="centerGroup" /> <m:wrapindent m:val="1440" /> <m:intlim m:val="subSup" /> <m:narylim m:val="undOvr" /> </m:mathpr></w:worddocument> </xml><![endif]--> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><br></p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Question: "Have you eaten?"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Right answer: "Yes, you?</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Wrong answer: "No, not yet"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Very wrong answer: " No, unlike the Chinese, we don't need to eat at a specific time of the day, we can just eat when we are hungry"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Comment: " Let's go out to play"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Right answer: "Play? You mean hang out? Sure, let's do it"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Wrong answer: "What do you mean by "play"?"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Very wrong answer: "Sure, what do you want to play? Football? Basketball?"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Comment: "My English is not good" </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Right answer: "Don't worry, I can understand what you say"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Wrong answer: "Try singing more English songs in KTV?"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Very wrong answer: "Well, you only learned English for like what? 15, 20 years?"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Question: "Don't you miss your family?"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Right answer: "Yes, of course, I call them every day and I go to see them twice a year"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Wrong answer: " I haven't talked to them in a couple of years, I'm not sure what they're up to"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Very wrong answer: "No"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Comment: " Eat more! Eat more! Drink more! Drink more! Ganbei! Bottoms up!"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Right answer: "Ok, ok, thank you!"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Wrong answer: "I can't, I'm full"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Very wrong answer: "No"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Comment: "We are friends now, ok?"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Right answer: "Yes, of course"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Wrong answer: "Means I'm in the friendzone already?"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Very wrong answer: "Oh, come on, we met like 5 minutes ago, why do you guys all have to be so needy?" </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-spacerun:yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Question: "Why are you here? why aren't you in Beijing or shanghai?"</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Right answer: "I'm going to Beijing 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as we can, or not? we don't 99% of people don't really care much about the lives of the animals or the plants, and only some people care about other human lives, as long as they are close to them<br><br>we know life is fairly rare in the universe, and consciousness even more so, we treasure it as such and we live every day as if it was the last one, enjoying every second. or not? 99% of people are always on auto pilot and don't think much about what they do or why.<br><br>we are aware that the every atom in out body comes from a star that exploded, we are made of star dust, we are the cosmos itself and we long to return to it, that's why we go camping every night far from the light pollution of the city, to feel like we belong to the cosmos, or not? we don't? 99% of people sleep inside their houses where they can't even see the milky way and they stare at some little screen to keep themselves entertained and their minds numbed <br><br>so how about that one percent? can i be the one percent?<br><br>it is possible in theory at least if we learned to see things for what they really are.<br><br>most of the times we just get confused, our thoughts and feelings misguided by a false reality we have constructed by adding together our upbringing, own values and ideas, things our society says are this way, the little information we have at this moment and some assumption we decided to make at any given moment for any given reason<br><br>An assumption that is not made by using reason, logic or pattern recognition but by some illogically ridiculous ways, such as taking the word of an authority figure o accepting the easiest to digest or more comfortable idea we are able to assimilate and understand at this given moment and closing the doors to anything that we don't fully understand, is different, it makes us feel uncomfortable or contradicts our beliefs in one way or another.<br><br>humans are capable of some amazing things and some terrible things as well<br><br>which side would you choose? if you didn't have all the necessary information available to you at that time is is possible to find some way to justify doing terrible things <br><br>i wrote a short time ago that our my main goal should be to be kind, compassionate, peaceful and happy, but I must strive for understanding instead<br><br>When there is understanding everything else will just come into place. Once you understand what is happiness, how you can achieve it, why you are not happy, why you need to be happy and the benefits it will have in your life, you can easily take steps to achieve it, because once you understand the whys then there wont be another viable option for you to take.<br><br>Happiness, peace, compassion and understanding will be the only way to go and there wont be any other logical course or action/thought<br><br>science helps us to think a bit more deeply about things<br><br>and there really seems to be no way around it, for me at least<br><br>understanding leads to awareness<br><br>understanding will lead to peace and happiness and love, unconditional love for everything and everyone<br><br>some say "no waifu, no laifu"<br><br>but i would rather say "no understandingu, no laifu"<br><br>understanding is everything<br><br>or maybe it isn't, we'll see<br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br></div></div><br><br><span title="neteasefooter"><p> </p></span>Bruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-57756419900404657562015-12-24T23:34:00.000+09:002015-12-24T23:35:39.237+09:00Greetings from Chile<div style="line-height:1.7;color:#000000;font-size:14px;font-family:Arial"><p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">Hey guys this is Bruce, sorry I haven't been able to contact anyone in a while, many things have happened.</font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">It's October 2016 now and we are 6 months into out south American trip, I decided to take bongu on a trip of a lifetime, from tierra del fuego to Alaska, on foot. </font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">why to Alaska? What's there? Nothing really, and the trip is purely for volunteering<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>and a self indulging ourselves and accomplish a lifetime dream, you know as we get older we start questioning ourselves what are we doing with our lives and I want to be the person that can tell my grandchildren, if I ever have them, that I did something interesting and memorable with my life, that when I was young I walked from argentina to Alaska, with my dog. And if they ask why I will explain it was just the right thing for me to do at the time, and sometimes we just have to do what we have to do and there's no way around it. As simple as that.</font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">We are now about to cross the Atacama desert, and taking it relatively slow, some days we walk 30 km, some 40 and some we don't walk at all.</font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">No major problems so far, the only nuisance is condensation at night, but my bivy is holding up relatively well, now for those of you who don't know, a bivy sac is kind of like a tent but is also kind of like a sleeping bag,, or like a cocoon where you sleep at night watching the stars without having to worry about insects, police, rain, cold, snow, people discovering your tent and murdering you in your sleep, ot stuff like that. </font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">it's really the only option when you want to experience nature at its fullest and still be able to have a good night sleep. I tried to get bongu inside it with me but it was just too cramped and tight for her, so now I have a small piece of cardboard for her that I put next to me for insulation and a poncho to wrap around her during cold nights, she uses my bag as a pillow and comes closer to me for safety and warm, and we both sleep better knowing we are there for each other.</font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">The first few weeks were tough for her so we took it slow, we would walk 2 or 3 days and then take a day off, now after a few months we can walk at least 25km every day and then she gets a huge dinner and a good 10 to 12 hour sleep, I make sure she sleeps at least 10 hours a day and she seems comfortable with that arrangement so far.</font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">99% of people are just super friendly, they want to talk to me, a lot and ask heaps of questions, we often get invited for meals and staying in their houses, I don't think we have ever rejected a meal so far, I give bongu the meat and eat myself the rest of the stuff we are given, and sometimes I also eat some meat when there just isn't anything else. And we usually accepts invitations to sleep indoors, even though sometimes I really don't feel like socializing and answering the same questions over and over again, I still accept, mostly<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>because of the chance to take a shower.</font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">We have seen and done some amazing things, met some amazing people and every day that goes by I am more and more convinced that this is the right way to live my life and I made the right choices through up my life, most of the times.</font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">And many people tell me that I am so brave or that they wish they could do what I'm doing, I don't think I am in a position to give anyone advice on how to live their lives, so I just nod and listen to them. I can teach English to them and their kids, I can tell them some funny stories about my trip and the people I met on the way, I can let them play with bongu and listen to them, I can do the dishes or cook some meal for them, help them clean around the house as way to say thank you for putting me up for the night, but I'm not gonna go around telling people to give up their lives, quit their jobs, abandon all their friends and families and go travel or go for their dreams. </font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">But on occasions I would someone who really wants to do that, so I am happy to share with them what I learned on the way and give them some advice about how to find work, food, shelter in different countries, or how to live without money or making money when you can't speak the language, don't have any special skills and don't have a working visa.</font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">But I don't tell them that I am ashamed of living in a world where people are punished for working or trying to make a living honestly and I think people should be allowed to work and travel anywhere they wished to without the need of visas or passports. That I can't tell anyone because it's too difficult for them to understand. What I can do is tell them how to get all this visas and passports, how to make fake police clearances, university degrees, invitation letter, health certificates, hotel and plane reservations, how to tell immigration officers<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>what they want to hear and how to trick the system into letting you live your life in a peaceful, non wasteful and honorable way without getting arrested or punished in the process.</font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">As I told my grandkids we have to do what we have to do, and sometimes what we have to do requires us breaking a bunch of rules and laws in the process, that is alright, as long as you don't get caught and as long as you live by and respect your own moral standards.</font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">A both good and simple moral code to live by would be the following 4 rules:</font></p> <p style="TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin"><span style="mso-list: Ignore"><font size="3" face="Calibri">1)</font><span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </span></span></span><font size="3" face="Calibri">All life is sacred: must protect those who are at disadvantage or can't speak up for themselves, such as women, children, the poor, the animals. Can't eat the animals unless there is no other choice, can't cause any kind of harm to any person or animal, not physically, psychologically or verbally, not even in self defense, violence is never an option.</font></p> <p style="TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin"><span style="mso-list: Ignore"><font size="3" face="Calibri">2)</font><span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </span></span></span><font size="3" face="Calibri">Can't cause some problem or inconvenience others.</font></p> <p style="TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 36pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin"><span style="mso-list: Ignore"><font size="3" face="Calibri">3)</font><span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </span></span></span><font size="3" face="Calibri">Must try to minimize our footprint on the environment as much as possible</font></p> <p style="TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt 36pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin"><span style="mso-list: Ignore"><font size="3" face="Calibri">4)</font><span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </span></span></span><font size="3" face="Calibri">Must help other if you're able to.</font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">What do I miss about China? The language for sure, you know when you leave a country it takes a while to stop thinking in that country's language and start using a new one, takes at least a few months just to feel comfortable using a different language than the one you've been using for the last few years. And I kind of miss not having to worry about money, getting a good meal for 1 or 2 dollars, as here in argentina everything costs like 10 times more. </font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">What I miss the least is definitely the smokers in the elevator in my building, that's definitely number one thing I hate about china, all the other things I kind of tolerated them or ended up getting used to them.</font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">What's the best about being 24 hours a day on the go? <span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>the first few months you feel alive and enjoy every second, but after a while you get saturated and enter in a state of constant culture shock, can't even enjoy the beauty anymore, and you fall into the routine of walking, finding food, finding a place to hide for sleeping, then walking again and so on.</font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">Is it tiring? For sure, but you get used to it as well after a few months, at the beginning I was thinking every day about getting a bicycle, a motorbike or starting hitchhiking and took some effort to talk myself into not doing it and convince myself this is the way to go, specially because I have already traveled a lot by other means but this is something new, something unforgettable, must keep walking no matter what, it's just what you need to do right now.</font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">With so much time to think we can't avoid thinking about the future, after Alaska what? We are not control freaks that need to have our whole life planned otherwise we would feel scared or insecure, whatever has to happen will happen, and new experiences are always welcome. But it doesn't hurt to dream when you have plenty of free time and nothing to worry about. finding a job and settling down? Yes maybe, some day, in Russia for sure, but can't let the dreams about the future spoil me today's adventure, today's a precious day.</font></p> <div style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri"></font> </div> <div style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">That should be all for today, I'll keep you guys posted and well, you know, be happy and stuff.</font></div> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3" face="Calibri">Bruce & Bongu </font></p> <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><font size="3" face="Calibri"> </font></o:p></p></div><br><br><span title="neteasefooter"><p> </p></span>Bruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-54568634622117108382015-12-16T23:50:00.000+09:002015-12-16T23:51:41.515+09:00about teaching<div style="line-height:1.7;color:#000000;font-size:14px;font-family:Arial"><div><br><br>when i was in school i was a rather shy student so wouldn't say anything in class unless I was being asked to, even though I knew the answers, I was afraid to speak out and tried to go unnoticed, so while working as a teacher I always try to get the shy students to speak up first and give equal chances to speak to all the students, this is just one of the many things I learned teaching, and I'd like to emphasize the phrase "working as a teacher" because I don't think I am a teacher, and I don't think we are what we do, it is true, I am teaching and i work as a teacher, but I have also worked as a tree pruner before, does that mean I am a tree pruner? technically yes, but just in the literal sense of the word not in the deepest way<br><br>by acknowledging that this world is built around people who are good at just one thing and can do only one job their whole life, it appears unnatural for a person who has chosen to do a variety of jobs to entitle themselves with a job title in order to inflate their egos and walk further away from the selfless kind nature that is what many of us are aiming for to acquire in the long run.<br><br>so yes maybe i made some mistake and did or said something selfish today, but that doesn't remove the long term objective from sight, which is to be happy, kind, selfless and peaceful, the objective is always there, and even though we approach it at a slower pace than we wished to, every small step counts, same as with dog training.<br><br>we went out to train the dog today and maybe it didn't go so well, maybe she got distracted, maybe she was tired, maybe something else happened and she didn't learn, it doesn't matter the objective is still in sight and we will try again tomorrow.<br><br>we went out training today and she only understood the trick once and failed 20 times, that is already a small step towards our objective and it has to be recognized, and she deserves a prize for it, true we didn't accomplished as much as I wanted us to, but she did it once and she tried to do it the other 19 times. effort is rewarded even if you fail. we will get it right tomorrow, or next week, or next month, the trying part is what's worth it<br><br>with being kind is the same, ok today I was not so polite or kind to someone because i was having an off day or anything, it doesn't matter, what counts is that when you came home you acknowledged your mistake and you are taking steps to make it right, that on itself is a small step in the right direction<br><br>ok, today you didn't do much you just stayed at home the whole day but at night you went out to the shop said something nicce to the cashier and bought some hot drinks for the security guards who work outside in the cold, it took you just 5 minutes and the other 23 hours and 55 minutes you did nothing, well those 5 minutes count as well,<br><br>today we meditated for 5 minutes, we wrote some kind words on an email to someone for other 5 minutes and we made a list about some things we need to improve for other 5 minutes, those 15 minutes you spent today in trying to be better are very small steps towards the main objective, even though the rest of the day was spent in selfish stuff<br><br>it's true, we still have a long way to go but the objective is clear and that's what counts<br><br>anyway i was going to talk about some of the things i learned working as a teacher<br><br>I mentioned before how we teach a dog using a technique called "positive reinforcement" it means acknowledging and rewarding good behavior and ignoring bad ones, works great with kids as well because they love the attention and praise and they'll try harder to get it next time. Can't overdo it though, if you use it too much it would just lose it's value, like those people who need to call their dogs many times before they come or listen to them, because they have been over doing it from the start. <br>alternating the rewards also works great for both dogs and people alike, for dogs first a snack or small treat, next time an ear scratch, next time a "good girl" and next time a big pet, for kids now a high five, then a "good job" then they get to keep the flashcard or toy animal or anything it is we are teaching at the moment, then a sticker and next time a "great" with a smile.<br><br>next item this is a teaching style called TPR, total physical response, means doing something with our bodies, instead of just sitting on the desk with a book, telling a story while we act the words works really well, anything from games and songs and dances, it all contributes to keep the kids engaged and attentive, this works well for about 90% of the kids the other 10% are the shy ones that would rather sit quietly and learn from the book, to get this kind of students engaged we bring them close to us and pay special attention that they are getting involved or at least trying to and give extra praise for keeping up with the class<br><br>next item, I always remember that we learned through cooperation not through competition, so using the positive reinforcement technique to encourage good behavior, I would be sure to notice when a student helps another or they work together towards a common goal, I would praise them and then tell the parents later how good they were and how they helped each other, it also goes a long way if you tell the parents how good they were while the student is there<br><br>next thing, fighting against the public school concept that we all learn the same way, even if I work for a public school still must adapt to every particular student even if there are 60 in one class, like it's often the case, i still must recognize that not all the students learn the same way or at the same rhythm, some learn better by speaking up, other from the book, some by drawing, or writing, some learn better by themselves, some in groups, some learn better in the morning, some at night, some learn faster and some slower, some will learn just by listening to you,so we must adapt our methods to each one of them in a specific way<br><br>next one, acknowledging and accounting for individual student's personal situations, some may be tired, may be having some problems at home, or just having an off day like your dog, we are not great and happy and ready to learn all the time and some of them come to school after enduring 8 or 10 hours in public school of teachers shouting at them or other students bulling them, and we have to understand them because we don't know what they have been through outside the classroom<br><br>next one, they learn a lot just by looking at you and interacting with you, they will even learn from the way you walk, you speak and handle yourself in every situation, so if you emit positive energy and confidence in your every behavior they will learn from that as well, same as your dog<br><br>always be kind to them in every situation, even if they are rude to you, reply with kindness and they will feel remorse or regret, because they are used to other teachers and family to shout at them and punish them in some way if they do something wrong, <br><br>and last but not least what I consider to be the most important thing not just for teaching, but now we are talking about teaching so yes for teaching, would be to be there in the moment, some teacher may use their phones in class or just go about the lessons automatically because they already did it many times before, but it goes a long way to be aware of the present moment, looking at the students in the eyes, making sure that if you are talking to a student or a parent or another teacher they are the most important person in the world for you at that moment, if addressing the class make sure they know you like them and you want to help them and you there for them and that you will do your best for them to learn what they have to learn, so being honest to them, making sure they are learning well, making sure they are happy and healthy, and showing them you actually care for them will do wonders both for the students, their parents and for yourself in the long run<br><br>thanks for reading<br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br></div></div><br><br><span title="neteasefooter"><p> </p></span>Bruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-41602193353448249222015-12-15T19:31:00.000+09:002016-01-29T00:53:04.783+09:00finding thoughts 3<div style="color: black; font-family: "arial"; font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.7;">
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how about the other pleasures of life, like having kids and seeing them growing up, and losing their first teeth, and the first day of school, and all those small things they must do that are special, many firsts ones. that must be nice too, but tey are hard to imagine if you haven't experienced them before, but most people have traveled in some way so it's easier to get hitched to something you know than to something you have never experienced<br />
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so, how many sexual partners have you had? have you ever been asked that? How to respond? the fact that they are asking that question in the first place proves they wont be able to handle the truth. but how many is too many? people who ask that are also young and they don't consider you are older than them, we still live in an age where sex is rather taboo and no one is opened to love you unconditionally, they love you if... if you do what they want and are the way they want you to be, if they love you they must consider your past and judge you for it and consider your prospects for the future and what they can get from you in the future, probably only your dog will love you unconditionally<br />
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about my best friend, his name is daniel, and lives in argentina, he tells me about the terrible things that happen there, and when i read about argentina it looks like a much more terrible place than china, their currency is worth 10 times less than it was last time I was there, insecurity an crime is always on the rise, government and police still useless and corrupted, no life opportunities, they are prisoners like the north koreans, the currency can't be converted into foreign currencies like in myamar, even in china I can just go to the bank and buy dollars or euros, i know they have internet and freedom of speech, if I were to move to argentina I'd have to trade my safety for the interenet, would I be able to do that? probably not, I'd rather not have internet but feel safe at home and on the streets. anyway even though I haven't seen him in 12 years he is still my best friend and I love him unconditionally, so there's that<br />
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I know you don't eat meat and you don't like white rice much but you still buy the meat and the rice for me because you know I need it, and I know when we go to a restaurant you ask them to cook something special for me, and you have to explain them how to cook it, and explain I can't eat chili, and you always take a plastic bag to give them so they can put my food into and they wont need to use their bowls, thank you for that<br />
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I know you are tired sometimes but you still go out because you Know I need to run and use the toilet, thank you for that also<br />
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you know I don't like staying home alone, so you always take me to your office, to meet people, to eat, for shopping, for exercise, trips out of town, and I really like that<br />
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you put my bed next to your yours because you know I like sleeping next to you, if we sleep in a hotel you put a towel next to your bed, if it's not your house you ask someone to put something soft for me to sleep on, if we sleep in the forest you soften the soil and find some leaves for me, if we sleep in the tent we can share the sleeping bag, if we ride the bike you put a cushion for me to sit on, that is very sweet<br />
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Bruno Maioranahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12714417096374339602noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4305834319532862571.post-30686463029192377242015-11-27T19:33:00.000+09:002015-11-27T19:34:31.095+09:00About China<div style="line-height:1.7;color:#000000;font-size:14px;font-family:Arial"><div>About china<br><br><br><br><br><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:view> <w:zoom>0</w:zoom> <w:trackmoves /> <w:trackformatting /> <w:punctuationkerning /> <w:validateagainstschemas /> <w:saveifxmlinvalid>false</w:saveifxmlinvalid> <w:ignoremixedcontent>false</w:ignoremixedcontent> <w:alwaysshowplaceholdertext>false</w:alwaysshowplaceholdertext> <w:donotpromoteqf /> <w:lidthemeother>EN-US</w:lidthemeother> <w:lidthemeasian>X-NONE</w:lidthemeasian> <w:lidthemecomplexscript>X-NONE</w:lidthemecomplexscript> <w:compatibility> <w:breakwrappedtables /> <w:snaptogridincell /> <w:wraptextwithpunct /> <w:useasianbreakrules /> <w:dontgrowautofit /> <w:splitpgbreakandparamark /> <w:dontvertaligncellwithsp /> <w:dontbreakconstrainedforcedtables /> <w:dontvertalignintxbx /> <w:word11kerningpairs /> <w:cachedcolbalance /> </w:compatibility> <m:mathpr> <m:mathfont m:val="Cambria Math" /> <m:brkbin m:val="before" /> <m:brkbinsub m:val="--" /> <m:smallfrac m:val="off" /> <m:dispdef /> <m:lmargin m:val="0" /> <m:rmargin m:val="0" /> <m:defjc m:val="centerGroup" /> <m:wrapindent m:val="1440" /> <m:intlim m:val="subSup" /> <m:narylim m:val="undOvr" /> </m:mathpr></w:worddocument> </xml><![endif]--> <p class="MsoNormal">What do you think about china?</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Well that depends</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Depends on what?</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">On the motive behind the question, if you're just being polite and making small talk I should follow suit and reply that it's a really nice place, great food. But if you really want to know what I think about china I actually have a list of all the things that are wrong and how to fix each and one of them. <br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal">I like the second options better, and I would definitely like to give it a read, and then i could maybe translate it to chinese and post it in some forums, it could catch someones attention before being taken down and we may get the ball rolling for improving things all over the country.</p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:worddocument> <w:view>Normal</w:view> <w:zoom>0</w:zoom> <w:trackmoves /> <w:trackformatting /> <w:punctuationkerning /> <w:validateagainstschemas /> <w:saveifxmlinvalid>false</w:saveifxmlinvalid> 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mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-bidi;} </style> <![endif]--> </p><p class="MsoNormal">U know I just me someone who thinks he can help me improve the situation in this country</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">And ignoring the prime directive?</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Can't be remembering all those rules.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">But it's the only rule you should be remembering.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">I thought there were like 30 something</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">But it's the most important one: "As the right of each sentient species to live in accordance with its normal cultural evolution is considered sacred, no cute puppies may interfere with the normal and healthy development of alien life and culture. Such interference includes introducing superior knowledge, strength, or technology to a world whose society is incapable of handling such advantages wisely. Cute puppies may not violate this Prime Directive, even to save their lives and/or their ship, unless they are acting to right an earlier violation or an accidental contamination of said culture. This directive takes precedence over any and all other considerations, and carries with it the highest moral obligation."</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">I will do what I have to do.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <h3>People who say that are usually the first ones to die.<span style="font-family:SimSun;color:#FFFF66"> </span></h3> <h3><span style="font-family:SimSun;color:#FFFF66"> </span></h3> <h3><span style="font-family:SimSun;color:#FFFF66">What about this?</span></h3> <h3><span style="font-family:SimSun;color:#FFFF66;background:black;mso-highlight: black">General Order 20</span></h3> <p style="margin-left:36.0pt"><span style="font-size:13.5pt;font-family:SimSun; color:#FFFF66;background:black;mso-highlight:black">Cute puppies may employ whatever means necessary to prevent the possession, transportation, sale, or commercial exchange of sentient beings being held against their wishes within the boundaries of Federation space.</span><span style="font-size:13.5pt; font-family:SimSun;color:#FFFF66"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"> </p> <p class="MsoNormal">Well what about this?</p> <h3><span style="font-family: SimSun; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">General Order 14</span></h3> <p style="margin-left:36.0pt"><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; font-family: SimSun; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">Cute puppies may intervene in local planetary affairs to restore general order and to secure the lives and property of Federation citizens only upon receiving a direct order to do so from a civilian official with the title of governor or higher.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal">but no one asked you to interfere</p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal">but no one asked me not to interfere</p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal">but the rules say you shouldn't interfere, there's nothing to think about here, you just mind your own business and let the other humans destroy themselves, destroy all the other life forms in this planet, and then destroy the planet</p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal">But this planet has been here for billions of years, how could they destroy it, i mean even if they wanted to, there's no way they could</p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br></p> <br><br><br><br><br><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:latentstyles deflockedstate="false" defunhidewhenused="true" defsemihidden="true" defqformat="false" defpriority="99" latentstylecount="267"> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="0" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" qformat="true" name="Normal" /> <w:lsdexception locked="false" priority="9" semihidden="false" unhidewhenused="false" 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